There come sometime in life when you stop briefly and ask yourself a surprising question: am I happy with my life? Then you start listing all the things you have achieved so far. The answer might be yes, I am happy with what I have accomplished but you can’t help but think, could I done better?
Yes, you might reached some goals but are you open to new countless different possibilities. They say you can look for opportunities and if you dont find any, you can create new opportunities within yourself.
Here is how:
1. Challenge your thoughts and your beliefs.
We hear about people who achieved extraordinary things. How they did it? I never can do that, you happen to think. See it all begins in the way you think. So straighforward you think you can’t do it. You know why, because you already put a block in front of your beliefs. To get through that you need to remove that block, by challenging your thoughts and beliefs on what you can and what you can’t do.
2. Challenge your ideas and fears.
When we think of changing something in our lives, there are doubts. We have many ideas but there is fear too. What if I am not good enough to do this? Challenge all your ideas. Are they realistic? If yes where your fears come from. Get rid of fears, step up to new choices.
3. Have a clear vision.
Where do you want be? Have you figured out your journey? Your vision create that path you geting on and going to explore.
4. Face tough situations now.
Look at opportunities in a tough situation. Preparing yourself for a new beginning with a positive attitude is important.
5. Commit yourself to a new challenge.
Is there something you always wanted to do, but you never started. Tell yourself the time is now and start it right way.
6. Get rid of what is holding you back.
Might be a thought that is not letting you move on. Think positive, think you can do it. Get rid of that thought replace it with a new positive one.
7. Do more of little things.
Always think you can do more little things that can really make a difference. Helping out other people, getting together with friends more often, volunteering a bit of your time. By doing more little things you are open to more new possibilities. It not only give you all them warm feelings but can teach you many new things through out the process.
8. Focus on the present.
Shift your focus on what is more important. If you learning a new skill, focus on that. Focusing on what matters means you put your energy and all the efforts at the same line.
9. Get out in an open.
Widen your possibilities by getting out in open. Like if your work is not to far walk instead of driving. Talk to people. Make new friends. Have launch with an old friend. Go for a coffee with a coworker. If you have a new idea how to lower cost of your company bring it to life. Be more lively.
10. Move out of your comfort zone.
This is the time when you take action. Words dont change situations, words without action are only noice. You need to move out of your comfort zome to open your world to many other possibilities.